Somewhere you learned that your relationship is where your truth goes to die.
That you have to hide so you don't lose love. That the power you've been afraid to own would change everything. The grief and shame you can't let yourself feel, lest it tear you apart. The fantasy you've never dared to share. The intimacy you long for, and have never known how to ask for.
You used the relationship to stay small, until you started hiding from yourself.
Your relationship can also be where you thrive, play, & come fully alive.
How much of you got left at the door so the loving could stay easy?
Most relationships trade aliveness for certainty. Yours can get wilder, truer, more alive.
Two whole people choosing each other, not two halves clinging; each a mirror and witness.
Stop managing your appetite and start following it. Your life-force leads into deeper aliveness, spontaneity, and freedom.
Let the parts that have served their purpose die, so your truest relationship can be born.
Your vulnerable truth is the ground real love stands on. Boundaries are a gift, desires beautiful.
With Atilla, Jen, or both.
PhD in social psychology, bridging rigorous science with mystical arts. A decade of close work with individuals, couples and groups, where love stops being polite. Devoted to making ecstatic love with the full spectrum of life, guiding couples into a path of eros, truth, and play.
More about AtillaMaster's in somatic psychology and body psychotherapy, specializing in trauma healing and spiritual awakening. Trained in EMDR, parts work, and PACT couples therapy, with initiation in earth-based wisdom traditions. A decade at the intersection of attachment repair, embodiment, and mystery.
EllowynLaurenRose.com'Till Death do you part from every part of you that was going to die hiding anyway.